Ward 64-9B Redding LP/ Med-Onc

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It was a long and mostly sleepless night. Oncology Ward 64, Room 9 has four beds. I’m bed B. For reasons not explained to me yet, I share the room with three ladies, all of whom are considerably sicker than I am. Or at least their cancers are more advanced than mine, which amounts to the same thing. The nighttime hours were punctuated with random, involuntary body noises. Snores, belches, coughs, farts and unidentified gurgling sounds. Nurses with flashlights came and went, tending to IV pumps, and delivering pain relief meds. In the brief, quiet interludes I lay in the darkness listening to the traffic sounds coming from the street below, and watching splinters of light sweep across the suspended ceiling.

For a long time I listened to Mrs. Gang in bed A to my left. I don’t think she’s doing so well. Her breathing is quick and shallow. Between each short breath she whispers “Ay-Ya” to herself. “Ay-Ya… Ay-Ya… Ay-Ya… Ay-Ya…” Over and over for what seems like hours. I think it must be her way of dealing with her pain. Mrs. Gang is Mandarin Chinese and doesn’t speak any English. When I see her this morning I want to ask if there is anything I can do for her, but my Mandarin is worse than her English. The best I can do is smile in what I hope is a sympathetic and compassionate way. She’s lying in the same fetal position under her thin sheet as when I arrived on the ward yesterday. She’s staring in my direction, but I can’t tell if she’s looking at me or through me.

After a merge breakfast – I’ll save my polemic on hospital food for another day – and “Bloods,” that’s daily samples to go off to the hematology lab, we settle into the routine of the day. Today is Saturday. Basically, nothing much happens in hospital at the weekends unless you are considered an emergency. The consultants and surgeons will all be at their private practices, or on the golf course today. So, it’s a four hourly cycle of “Ob’s” – blood-pressure, blood oxygenation, and temperature, and not much else in-between to pass the time.

Bed C is Colleeen. It’s hard to put an age on her, maybe sixty, but she appears more like eighty. She looks incredibly fragile, and walks slowly with a stooped shuffle. She has a sallow, sunken face with sharp, bird-like features and darting, intelligent eyes. Her skin is a translucent pale yellow color and stretched drum tight over her bony cheeks. Like someone has stuffed a skull into a condom. She is mostly bald on top, with very fine straggly gray hair hanging limply at the sides and front. I can’t look at her without thinking of Riff-Raff from The Rocky Horror Show.

Colleen spends a good bit of her time standing up, pottering around her corner of the room talking quietly to herself. “Today’s Saturday. Yes, Saturday. Tomorrow’s Sunday.” She also diligently makes long lists on a notepad. At first I thought she was probably a bit, you know, doolaley. But after talking to her I can report that no, contrary to appearances Coleen is as sharp as a tack. Her cancer is breast or lung, not sure which, but it affects her breathing. When she’s not berating her husband on the phone, or talking to herself, she makes a constant, quivering “Mmmm… Mmmm… Mmmm… Mmmm…” sound, like she’s having some kind of inappropriate dirty fantasy. Yesterday I listened through the flimsy privacy curtain, while they drained a litre of fluid out of her chest.

Bed D is Chuck. That’s not her name, it’s what she calls me and everyone else who comes into the room. ” ‘Ello Chook.” Chuck is fifty something, and works in a warehouse in Manurewa. She has a rosy round face, one good breast and not a hair on her head. She’s on her third chemo cycle, and has picked up a cold from someone at work. that’s not good. After three months of chemotherapy, a cold can kill you. She spends most of the day hunched under a blanket shivering. She seems remarkably good humored about her situation, but is clearly not having a good time.

So that’s it. My universe for the next week. I feel a bit of a fraud really. These people are are all in pretty bad shape. I, on the other hand, with my invisible bleeding, healthy tan and full head of hair look like like an attention seeking impostor. The nurses come and check on me every few hours for “Ob’s”, but otherwise I’m left to my own devices.

I amuse myself by wandering the corridors, observing the other inmates, their visitors, and the nursing staff going about their business. Like everything else about this cancer business, it’s amazing how quickly the novel and unexpected can become prosaic and routine. After only a few days, this scary and alien environment is starting to feel like a familiar second home. I know my way to the kitchen and the TV room. I know where the laundry cupboard is if I need a fresh towel or another blanket. I’ve figured out the idiosyncrasies of the shower, and how to adjust my bewilderingly complicated electric bed.

In just a few days I’ve become like the archetypal old prison lag in the movies. The ancient lifer with no teeth who sweeps up and hands out the library books. Benign, institutionalized and largely overlooked, he’s been inside so long nobody, including him can remember what he’s there for.

Probably just as well. I have a feeling this will not be my last visit to this place.

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  1. Tricia Hollingum says:

    Hiya,

    Why do they do mixed wards, it’s bizzare eh? Bad enough you have be just a curtain of plastic between beds which offers very little privacy. Mind you it is the perfect place to eavesdrop on some weird conversations, especially at visiting time.
    Stay strong honey, lovely to see you smiling through it all.

    Much love from us both. xxxxx

    • Linds says:

      I asked that question the other day. This is my second stay in hospital recently, and both times I have found myself sharing a ward with three women. I was beginning to think maybe it was some kind or clerical error on account of my girly name. I’m told that I’m not being singled out for special treatment, and it’s just a sign of the times. The wards used to me male or female, but as the city has grown, and demand for beds has outstripped demand, they had to make all the rooms unisex. I don’t really mind. The girls tend to be better company and more of a laugh. And in my experience, they don’t bitch and moan as much as the lads. The down side is you girls spend so long in the toilet and the bathroom!

  2. Jean Goodbrand says:

    Aaaah Linds, I have read every one over the weeks and laughed and cried along with you and Jo.
    What a wit you have and a great talent for writing.
    As the Maoris would say Kia Kaha (be/stay strong – although some bugger will probably correct me!)
    We are thinking of you every day and will catch up soon.
    Lots of love Jean and Wayne.

  3. Sion says:

    You’re looking good, Linds. I know some great highly offensive sweary chinese. Alas, Cantonese only. We’re thinking of you mate.
    S
    xxx

  4. Seems odd to ‘like’ your blog mate. But I did. Your writing is excellent (for an art guy that is…) and I’m past feeling self conscious about sharing it with others.
    Good to see you in a chipper mood.
    And finally a question: Why do you have links of sausages beside your bed. Are there no fridges there? Can’t be hygenic.

    • Linds says:

      If you could see what they give you for breakfast in this place you would understand the need for the sausages. These is also a side of ham in my bedside locker, and a peperoni salami under my pillow.

  5. SMB says:

    Can you please explain how despite eye sight so chronic ‘you would never drive’ you became such a shit hot art director and animator. Why didn’t you become a sound guy or something?

    SMB

    • Linds says:

      Strange how things work out huh? Believe it or not, we had a Careers Officer visit our school when I was in fourth form. We each had to fill out a long questionnaire about our interests and aptitudes. The following week, we all got a letter from the Career Advisory Service (or whatever it was called.) Do you know what my perfect job was? Advertising Art Director. True story.

  6. Hi Linds,

    Nothing very useful to contribute, except to let you know that we are “listening in” and thinking of you both.

    Steve

  7. Toby Talbot says:

    Linds,

    Your gallows humour makes my day. You are sick on so many levels.

    Now pull yourself together and come fly fishing with me. If the chemo makes you sick, no worries. There’s nothing in the rule book about a burly trail. I’ve checked.

    Love from all of us at 80 Greys Avenue (and 1 Macky Avenue, Devonport)

    Toby

    • Linds says:

      Not out of the question Toby. They have promised me a three week break after the radiation treatment, so a weekend down at the lake is definitely on the cards. My people will talk to your people…

      • Pip says:

        The offer of soup still stands! Let me know when and where you would like it. I have a thermos and can bring it in hot to you to the hospital if you would like.

        Pip x

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